I have a thing about old letters, images, tawny browns, and filtered light. They remind me of times gone by and the first stirrings of a history written for women, about women, by women. Women’s domains no matter how they are parsed were, and largely still are, focused on the home, and relationships among family and a close community. Legacy of any individual woman depended upon artifacts, often fabric ones, and works created in a woman’s lifetime, letters and diaries, that were displayed or archived by those that remembered her or those who were shaped by her.
Embroidery samplers created by young ladies to showcase their skill with a needle and thread, as well as appreciation of home and their piety, are often the only medium for their words to echo on after a life is over.
Education and literacy had to come to be routine for the average women, and writing supplies had to be priced such that common people could afford paper, ink and the time needed for writing.
It is easy to forget that mass communication is a most recent development. Histories were carefully composed and facts sculpted for them for centuries. The information that fed and fueled our society and informed our actions and decisions was closely controlled by very small numbers of individuals until but a historical heartbeat ago.
Newspapers and other periodicals increased the amount of information regularly added to our knowledge base at an unheard of rate in the last 150 to 200 years. Propriety shaped much of the content of these publications and filters were everywhere.
In the last 15 to 20 years personal publishing developed in both print and electronic forms. Digital information transmission and storage allowed for the generation and consumption of data at a scale unimagined even a decade ago. The size of the dark web of criminal and underworld activity and deep web of information behind firewalls is unknown, but what is available on the open, indexed web is, by itself is creating not only more information than ever before, but of a type never previously collected: the bits and pieces of women’s lives that are creating the first level of a women’s history. The legacy we are writing is not only unique, it is expanding into a new niche.
As some of the women who are creating this new cultural information, we have tremendous influence over the very nature of this new thing we are building and the trajectories that will be built upon beyond our lifetimes. This new type and level of influence over communication is fortuitous as several constants of the physical world and humanity’s place on that world for the last many centuries are morphing in unpredictable fashion.
We may not be able to anticipate what the future will be, but we have opportunity to influence the changes that are transpiring with an openness and a balance that has not been available to us for millennia if ever.
Thinking About Isabel and Heartache in Tucson
The anniversaries of births of an historic figure who committed atrocities recently went by. The anniversary of a domestic terrorist event also came and went in the past week. I only wanted to light a candle for the souls of the individuals who perished through these horrible acts by evil people. I did not want to give any recognition to the responsible individuals. I still don’t. I thought this year the events would just pass by. Then a little girl in my hometown disappeared. This is the third day she has been missing. The police are searching everywhere there is any reason to search. Local police, FBI, even the Border Patrol are in on the search. There isn’t much we in the community can do other than focus our energies and love on Isabel Celis and her family. From what I can tell from the local news, her mom is a nurse, her dad is a dental tech of some sort, and there is another child or children in the normal family. Suspicion does not seem to be falling on the normal, hardworking family.
I cannot help but be reminded of another local missing child who simply disappeared. Karen Rosalba Grajeda was around 6 when she disappeared. She was the same age as my daughter. She was playing outside her home when she was abducted. She was never seen or heard from again.
I can remind anyone who happens across this post of things they can do to make their children safer in their own homes. That is really the only thing I can do with the energy inside me that keeps bringing me back to thinking about Isabel.
Large barking dogs are reported to be among the best deterrents to people breaking into your home. Lighting is also very important in discouraging break-ins. But dogs and lighting are primarily discussed in burglary prevention. Child abduction is another matter entirely, and I have not found the studies I hoped to find on what measures are best for keeping your family safe from person on person crime when you are in your own home.
Bars or grills on windows are effective, but also slow down evacuation from a home in case of a fire.
I think this heart-breaking topic of child abduction is one of the most maddening crimes to which a person can think about responding. No one wants the macabre to rule their lives or those of their families. I used to work as the head of a section in a museum that was responsible for security at a museum, and I worked closely with the police who were the primary responders for any problems. We did not have our own security force. Thousands of children came through the museum during the months when school was in session. I had to think about safety and security in a way that many people will never have to think. It can profoundly change your outlook on life.
So what can you do to be a bit safer? Being armed with the facts is one of the best ways to prepare for any situation. Parents.com has a good overview document on child abduction.
No one can say for sure. If someone is stalking you or your child in your home and you do not know about it, which would have to be the case for most parents, how do you find out what you do not know about? To me it seems like risk assessment would be one of the first things to find out about. Extremely rich and powerful people, and celebrities, think about safe-guarding their families from kidnapping, but most people do not consider in home abduction to be a major threat to their families. Child abductions at home are relatively rare.
The things that I initially thought of include:
- Do you have convicted sex offenders and sexual predators living near you? How can you tell? Should you give out your info? State by state listings are available through the FBI website and they maintain the national database that is searchable by the offender’s name. Laws vary from location to location about what type of information is available over the internet regarding sex offenders. For example in Arizona where I live only individuals with higher risk for repeat violations, level 2 and 3 risks, are listed. This site, a free and no info required from searcher other than zip code , criminalcheck.com says that it searches all state files in one search, but I do not know if this is accurate. Blackbook online also has a large number of all sorts of public records that you can search for free. It is organized by jurisdiction, or location. Crooks use it I am sure, you might as well find out all the info that is out there about you.
- Are your windows alarmed, accessible from the exterior of the home?
- Can you hear distressed sounds from a child’s room throughout the house?
- What kind of unsupervised time is there in your family?
- Do you know the names of all the people who have entered your home?
I have spent a large portion of today on the web trying to find out about the state of safety and protection of children in Arizona.
While this may have nothing to do with Isabel, I cannot help but wonder whether a state that actively strikes down protections for women and children, such as Arizona, can ever be a safe place to raise a family. When I looked at results from a search on child trafficking in Arizona I mainly found links to a so-called crisis pregnancy center. I couldn’t trust anything associated with those listings. Even physicians, as of last week or so, can lie to a female patient if it involves the fetus in the woman.
We have to do something! I know I’m jumping all over the place here. I can’t concentrate and I want to do something. Prayer and information doesn’t seem like enough.