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Iconic M: Mama

Written by: womenslegacy
Published: April 14, 2018 -- Last Modified: April 14, 2018
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Why do most languages have something like a word that sounds like mama that means mother?  Etymology, the study of the history of language and words, tells us part of the story, but biology tells us the other part.  And we really can figure out why some things come to stand for other things, like a mmmmm sound for the one who birthed you and feeds your from her breast and for a while in a child’s life is indistinguishable from the child’s self.  A pretty good article all about this can be found in the Atlantic.

 
We naturally make sounds before we can consciously shape the mouth, tongue and lips. Unclasping the lips from nursing and releasing a breath makes something akin to a ma or na sound.  The mother reinforces the baby making that sound and the baby emulates her words and the positive experience.  And wah lah we have a pretty damn near universal word recreates with every generation.  Me beginning with the same sound as ma is not universal but is  an Eurasian phenomenon.
This month I said I was working with iconic imagery that is associated with the essential or elemental feminine.  Mama is one of the words that truly meets the criteria of iconic.  Everyone has a mother.  The woman, food, comfort, love, and a state of contentment are components of a preverbal association laid down in our earliest experience.  In this way a mother, and as a universal experience, the mother truly stands for a concept in such a way such that it is more than simple representation, and that the icon embodies the concept.
The inverse is also true; we come to include the child’s response of naming Mama as part of this essential and symbolic element of this primordial relationship.  Messing with icons breaks all cultural rules.  This is also why creepy dolls who say, “Mama” are the subject of horror stories.
I offer this A to Z entry up as a roll out for Mother’s Day posts.
 
 

Categories: A to Z - 2018 - Feminine Icons, Ancestors, BE, Biological, Communication, Cultural, Culture, Family, Featured Stories, Home & Family, Info TheoryTags: biological constraints, first word, icon, language, linguistics, Mama, universal

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  1. Leanne | www.crestingthehill.com.au

    April 16, 2018 at 5:50 am

    I wonder if it was a chicken or the egg thing? Did mothers call themselves mama because it’s the first word their child said and they wanted to claim it, or did babies latch on to the most important person in their world who was called mama and learn her name before any other?
    Leanne | http://www.crestingthehill.com.au
    N for Never lie

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    • Nancy Hill

      April 19, 2018 at 3:15 pm

      I think it is both!

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